How to Address a Rumor

Check the facts. Based on the information you've gathered, use your calendar to help you recall the date in which the incident supposedly took place. Try to remember your words and actions in the situation. This reflection is to help you confirm your role in the matter versus what was insinuated.

Tips & Warnings

• Until you're ready to address the rumor find topics to talk about with the people around you. Be prepared to talk about a sports game, movie or book you just read. This will help you avoid isolation, which many people associate with guilt.
• Refrain from searching out the rumor starter, he will only deny or spread more falsehoods once he is discovered.
• Stay away from gossip groups even after your rumor is old, forgotten news. People who consistently socialize with gossipers will find themselves as repeated victims of rumors.

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